Framework

RESILIENT

RESILIENT is nine trainable capacities for founder pressure: reappraisal, emotional granularity, somatic regulation, identity flexibility, learning orientation, interpersonal support, executive function, narrative integration, and titrated exposure. Resilience is infrastructure, not a personality trait.

When to use it

Use RESILIENT when the company is becoming the only room of the self, sleep is the first cut, and advice to "grind harder" is the only protocol on the table.

The moves

  1. 1

    Reappraisal

    Interpreting a setback in a way that does not amplify the threat.

  2. 2

    Emotional granularity

    Telling similar feelings apart and responding to each precisely.

  3. 3

    Somatic regulation

    Managing the body's stress signals through sleep, movement, and breath.

  4. 4

    Identity flexibility

    Maintaining more than one room of the self, so a setback cannot collapse the whole person.

  5. 5

    Learning orientation

    Treating failure as information, feeding the next decision instead of self-doubt.

  6. 6

    Interpersonal support

    Building relationships that supply support without demanding performance.

  7. 7

    Executive function

    Guarding attention and decision-making clarity from exhaustion.

  8. 8

    Narrative integration

    Holding a coherent story of challenge and growth, so hard stretches compound rather than deplete.

  9. 9

    Titrated exposure

    Deliberately meeting manageable stressors to build strength, in measured doses.

The book

Available now

The Psychology of Founder Resilience

How High-Stakes Leaders Stay Grounded, Clear, and Effective Under Pressure
The article The worksheets The series

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Citation

RESILIENT (The Psychology of Founder Resilience). Len P. van der Hof, Systems for the Strategic Self. https://lenvanderhof.com/frameworks/resilient/